Sam would always ask, in almost every argument, are you breaking up with me? That never worked. I always told her if it ever came to that, there would be no messing around, it would just be over.
It has been for about a month now, when she made it clear she did not want to talk about what should be done and how.
I didn't read the emails she sent at first but even those were not long before the last time my family and I tried to contact her parents and were asked to hold the line because her mum was out shopping. We asked her to call back.
Lets be frank, any parent would think alright who is this guy I want to talk to him sounding very pissed off when they ask.
This of course did not happen, otherwise something would have been worked out.

Did you love her. Yes
Did you break up with her. Yes
Are you happy you had to. No
Does everyone there know. Yes
Do they know her side of the story. Yes
Are you worried about the day a boy, girl, woman or man saying you're their father. No
Do you still love her. No

Just how I have told everyone.
It is a shame all this may not have happened.
If Sam picked up a phone and dialed a number, for the first time, in two years.
If you're thinking it just a phonecall then why would possibly be hard?
Everyone I've told has had the same reaction along the lines of I would have or just a phone call how hard is that?
Before I found out it didn't cost too much on the land line my cell cost £1 ($2 back then) a minute. Didn't stop me from calling.

That might be about it for now might add more some time.
You may be thinking, why the detail?
One of the best things about truth is you can remember it to every last one. Lies have to be kept short in hope you will remember the stories you're making. You never know when somebody, say, myself may be around when you change it to tell the next person.
Then put the facts together and find out you were lying about other things, then going from that one realize that a claim of morbid vengeance was also false meaning a certain Ex boyfriend did get away with rape, not he had not already but without consequence either

But enough of this for now.